HOW TO MAKE A WOMAN HAPPY
It's really not too difficult but... To make a woman happy, a man
only needs to be:
1. a friend
2. a companion
3. a lover
4. a brother
5. a father
6. a master
7. a chef
8. an electrician
9. a plumber
10. a mechanic
11. a carpenter
12. a decorator
13. a stylist
14. a sexologist
15. a gynecologist
16. a psychologist
17. a pest exterminator
18. a psychiatrist
19. a healer
21. an organizer
22. a good father
23. very clean
24. sympathetic
25. athletic
26. warm
27. attentive
28. gallant
29. intelligent
30. funny
31. creative
32. tender
33. strong
34. understanding
35. tolerant
36. prudent
37. ambitious
38. capable
39. courageous
40. determined
41. true
42. dependable
43. passionate
MY PARTNER MY FUTURE
Decisions
fill our everyday activities of what to wear, what to do, where to go and how
to spend our money.
In
marriage we think about whom to marry and how do I choose our partner.
As
we know no man is an island in life we can’t do it alone that why we need a
partner to work with.
WHO
IS A PARTNER
1.
A person who associated with another in some common activities.e.g dancing or
playing tennis.
2.
Any of the owners of business who share the profits and losses.
3.
A SPOUSE: A marriage partner.
FUTURE:
Speaks of our tomorrow, what we expect to become or do.
My
partner my future is all about someone we choose today and decided to live with
in the time to come.
TWO
BIG DECISIONS
Decision
they say determines our destiny. Our decision now will affect our future.
1.
DECISION ONE: The first big decision in life is to surrender the control of our
life to Jesus Christ. John1:12
2.
DECISION TWO: The second big decision is to choose who will be the man or the
woman with whom you will spend the rest of your life with.
Wrong
or poor marriage decision leads to wrong family and wrong children and could
mean a life-time of regret.Infact it can leads to hell on earth.
However
a right partner can be the beginning of heaven’s on earth.
THE
NEED FOR PARTNERS
We
are created for a purpose
It
is not good to be alone Gen 2;18
To
give way for sharing Phil 2:4
Two
heads are better than one Ecc 4:9-10
The
need for prayer and fellowship Matt
18:19
To
help one another Gen2; 18
For
encouragement
ESSENTIALS QUALITIES
1. VISION: You must be a man of vision who knows where he
is going.i.e. See ahead, beholding and defining the future.
2. INFLUENCE: To partner with anyone be ready to
influence the persons positively.
3. SERVICE: Partnering gives room to serve one
another.Demonstrate commitment by
getting involve
4. ATTITUDE: In fact your attitude determines your
altitude in life a partner need to develop positive attitude to work with one
another.
WRONG
WAY TO CHOOSE
1.
Parental influence.
2. Gambling
3.
Selection base on selfishness, beauty and wrong motives
4.
Unbelievers avoid it 2Cor 6:14-16
5.
Bad groups don’t join them. Psalm 1:1-2.
Avoid
Samson’s pit falls Judges 14:1-3, 16:20
If
anyone ignore this word and choose wrongly his marriage may eventually end in
disaster. 1 King 11:1-3
WISE
CHOICE
God
made us for connection to be a healthy human being you require healthy
relationship in your life, therefore choose wisely.
Let
Christ be the foundation of your choice
Pray
very well ask God to lead you. Gen 24; 12-15
Be
a student of the word of God and obey it Joshua 1:8-9
Be
purpose driven and avoid purposeless association
Be
in partnership with people who are in the same direction with you.
Look
for those who are true child of God that shares common interest and value with
you.
Anyone who has the following qualities will be a good partner.
Be born again John 1:12
who is committed Psalm 37:5
Who is Consistent 1 Cor 15:58
who is Devoted Col 3:2
Who is Contented Phil 4:11
who is Creative 1 Tim 4:14
Who is Faithful Matt 25:21
who is Friendly Prov 18:24
Who is Honest 2 Cor 8:21
who is Joyful Eph 5:19
Who is Tolerant 1 Thess 5:14
who is Supportive Gal 6:2
CONCLUSION
It
is not good to be alone you need a companion in the journey of life ask God for
divine guidance shine your eyes before you choose.
A
good partner in relationship will have positive effect on your future watch out
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